Hiki i ka nohona media ke hoʻōla i ke kaumaha?

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HerdʻO Mark Earl's puke, puke Herd, he heluhelu paʻakikī ia naʻu. Mai lawe i kēlā ala hewa. He puke kupaianaha kaʻu i loaʻa ma o kā Hugh McLeod blog.

ʻ saylelo wau 'paʻakikī' no ka mea ʻaʻole ia he 10,000 kapua nānā. ʻO Herd (Pehea e hoʻololi ai i ka lawena lehulehu e ka hoʻohana ʻana i ko mākou ʻano maoli) kahi puke paʻakikī e kikoʻī kikoʻī i kahi plethora o nā noiʻi a me nā ʻikepili e piʻi mai me kāna kumu nui. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole ʻo Mark Earls kāu mea kākau puke ʻoihana maʻamau - ke heluhelu nei i kāna puke makemake wau e heluhelu nei i kahi puke i waho loa o kaʻu kuʻikahi (ʻoiaʻiʻo nō!). Inā he noʻonoʻo ʻoe a mahalo i ka noʻonoʻo hohonu, a me nā pae kākoʻo - ʻo kāu puke kēia.

Inā hana ʻoe e like me aʻu, he puke maikaʻi nō ia. 🙂 Hiki paha iaʻu ke hoʻopau i kekahi o ka ʻike waiwai ma ke kākau ʻana e pili ana iā ia ma aneʻi, akā he aha ia. E hele ana au no ia.

Pila Pilikino PilikinoʻO kahi kumuhana a Mark i hoʻopā aku ai ʻo ke kaumaha. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Mark i ʻelua mau kumu maʻamau o ke kaumaha - ka pilina o nā mākua me kā lāua keiki a me ka pilina o kekahi kanaka me kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kānalua inā ʻaʻole ʻo Social Media kahi koho ʻoi loa i Prozac no ka hoʻōla ʻana i nā maʻi nohona e like me ke kaumaha. Lawe mai ʻo Media Media i kahi hoʻohiki no ka hoʻopili ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma waho o kāu pōʻai kūloko ma ka home, ke keʻena, a i ʻole i kou kaiāulu.

Twitter, WordPress, Facebook, Hōʻuluʻulu, Pāʻani pūnaewele ... ʻaʻole pili kēia mau noi āpau i 'Pūnaewele 2.0', ʻo ia nā ala e kamaʻilio ai kekahi me kekahi. ʻAʻohe mea kupanaha no ke aha i makemake nui ʻia ai nā noi kaiaulu. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka maʻalahi o ka wehe ʻana i ka poʻe me ka palekana o ka Pūnaewele ma waena o mākou?

Ma kahi hālāwai kūkā i kekahi mau mahina i hala aku nei, hoʻomanaʻo wau i kahi wahine i nīnau:

ʻO wai kēia poʻe a pehea lākou ma ka pūnaewele ma nā hola āpau o ka lā? ʻAʻohe o lākou ola?

He kuanaʻike hoihoi ia !, ʻaʻole anei? Manaʻo wau no ka poʻe he nui, kēia is ko lakou ola. ʻO kēia kā lākou pili i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, kā lākou leʻaleʻa, kā lākou makemake, kā lākou mau hoaaloha a me kā lākou kākoʻo. I ka wā ma mua, pono maoli kahi 'loner' e noho hoʻokahi. Akā i kēia lā, ʻaʻole pono kahi 'loner'! Hiki iā ia ke ʻike i nā mea mehameha ʻē aʻe me nā leʻaleʻa like.

Hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa i kēia ʻano ʻupena 'social' a me kāna ʻupena palekana me ka palekana ʻole e like me ka pilina maoli a me ka pilina kanaka. Pololei paha lākou ... akā ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu ke mālama nei ka poʻe i kēia ma kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe. No ka poʻe he nui, kēia is ʻo kā lākou ala wale nō e launa pū ai.

Ma ke kula kiʻekiʻe ʻo kaʻu hoaaloha, ʻo Mark, he mea pena kiʻi kamahaʻo. He bea nui ʻo ia no kahi kāne. He ʻumiʻumi piha kāna i ka papa 10 a kākau i nā puke komikoma me nā moʻolelo o Vampires a me Werewolves. Aloha au i ke kau pū ʻana me Mark akā hiki mau iaʻu ke haʻi ʻoluʻolu ʻole ʻo ia e pili ana i nā mea āpau - ʻo wau pū kekahi. ʻAʻole au i manaʻo ua kaumaha ʻo ia i nā mea āpau, akā ua noho mālie ʻo ia koe wale no ka namunamu i kekahi manawa (ulu wau i hope).

Hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo pono iā Mark he mea pena kiʻi eclectic kaulana, i kēia manawa, a i ʻole e noho ana i ka wao nahele e ia i kēia lā. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke alo akā kānalua. Inā he blog ko Mark a me kahi e hoʻopuka ai e paʻi i kāna mau moʻolelo hiki ʻole, manaʻo wau ua pili ʻo ia me nā tausani he lehulehu me nā makemake like. Loaʻa iā ia kahi pūnaewele kaiaulu - kahi pūnaewele o nā hoaaloha a me nā mea pā i paipai a mahalo iā ia.

ʻAʻole wau e kuhi iki e pakele ana mākou nā mea nūpepa i ke kaumaha a i ʻole mehameha ma o kā mākou kākau ʻana. Hana mākou; Eia naʻe, mahalo nui ʻia mai kā mākou poʻe heluhelu. ʻAʻohe wau ʻokoʻa. Inā ʻike wau i kahi mea e ʻoniʻoni nei i kahi blogger ʻē aʻe he hoaaloha naʻu, lele wau i loko a pale iā ia. Inā wau e lohe i kahi blog blog i maʻi ʻia, pule maoli wau nona a me kona ʻohana. A ke pau ka mea blog ʻana i ka blog ʻana, ʻaʻole wau e lohe ʻana iā lākou.

Ke hana nei i 50 a 60 i ko mākou pule a he makuakāne hoʻokahi wau, ʻaʻohe oʻu nui “He ola” (e like me ka wehewehe ʻana a ka wahine aʻu i ʻōlelo ai) ma waho o kaʻu blog a me kaʻu ʻoihana. ʻO ka mea mahalo, ʻo kaʻu ola Kākoʻo nui ʻia ka pūnaewele me ka hauʻoli, hauʻoli a hoʻohiki hoʻi. He hauʻoli maoli wau (non-medicated but overweight) kanaka. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo e hoʻāʻo ana wau e pani i kekahi me kekahi. Manaʻo wau he mea nui a uku ʻia nā mea ʻelua. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻoʻiʻo wau ua kipaku koʻu ola 'pūnaewele' iaʻu i lilo i mea kamaʻilio maikaʻi aku i koʻu ola 'maoli'. He lāʻau lapaʻau ia naʻu e kākau a maikaʻi koʻu manaʻo ke loaʻa nā manaʻo i kaʻu kākau ʻana (ʻoiai inā maikaʻi ʻole).

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, inā ʻaʻohe oʻu pūnaewele kākoʻo aʻu me ʻoukou e nā poʻe ... ʻo wau paha hiki hauʻoli ʻole a hiki ke heʻe i ke kaumaha. E pāʻani paha wau i nā pāʻani wikiō i ka pō a e minamina ʻole koʻu mau hoa i ka lā.

E aho wau e lawe i kaʻu Pūnaewele 2.0 Pila i kēlā me kēia lā.

9 Comments

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    ʻO ka mea mua ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo ʻo ka pili pūnaewele 2.0 e like me Twitter, blog a me nā mea like ma kahi kokoke i kahi lāʻau no nā mea e like me ke kaumaha a ʻaʻole wau e ʻaelike me ka manaʻo o Mark no nā kumu o ke kaumaha.

    ʻ saidlelo ʻia naʻe manaʻo wau i kekahi mau ala kā mākou kamaʻilio ʻana ma o ka pūnaewele e kōkua ai i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, ke ʻano o ke olakino a ma kekahi mau mea kōkua i kekahi ma waena o nā wā paʻakikī i loko o ko haʻi ola. E kūpono wau inā ʻaʻole wau e kau i nā blog ma ka pae like me Twtitter a me nā mea like (e hana koke wau i kekahi mea ma kēlā o kēia mau lā).

    ʻO kahi laʻana ma ke ʻano he ʻāpana o WinExtra he kahawai IRC kekahi noʻu e kono kono ʻia (ʻoiai inā ʻike wau e hana maoli ana nā poʻe iā IRC ma mua) a ʻo kekahi o kaʻu hoaaloha pili i ka makahiki i hala i ʻike he pono ia e hana i kahi ola koʻikoʻi e hoʻololi i kahi hele mai kahi mea hōʻalo. Ua kūleʻa ʻo ia - ʻoi aku ke kūleʻa i hiki i kekahi ke lilo me kahi addicition - akā ua ʻōlelo mai ʻo ia iaʻu i kekahi lā inā ʻaʻole no ke kahawai IRC a ʻo ka poʻe ma laila ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike inā hana ʻo ia ia mea. manawa pouli loa.

    I kekahi hihia ʻē aʻe i kū wale kekahi o nā poʻe lōʻihi lōʻihi o nā kolamu WinExtra a me ke kahawai IRC i kāpae i ka kau ʻana a i ʻole ke hōʻike ʻana i ke kahawai. Ma ka huli ʻelua mau lālā i ka US i hopohopo nui a hoʻomaka i ke kaʻina o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e alualu iā ia i hana e hōʻoia ua maikaʻi ʻo ia. ʻĀnō i kēia lā ua kū koke ʻo ia i ke kahawai a ua like ia me kahi hoaaloha lōʻihi lōʻihi i ka hoʻi ʻana mai i ka home - nāu a me mākou.

    He kaiāulu kēia a ʻoiai ʻaʻole i kau ʻia i ka pūnaewele 2.0 o nā pūnaewele kaiaulu e lawe wau i kēlā ma luna o nā kaiāulu Facebook a Twitter paha i kēlā me kēia manawa. Me ia manaʻo wau e hōʻike ana inā he lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o kahi kaiāulu pūnaewele a me ka hohonu o nā hoaaloha (inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka liʻiliʻi o kā mākou kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana no ʻeono mau makahiki a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi ʻano pilikino - ʻo ia ka mea āpau a mākou e makemake ai mai kā mākou ola.

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    Aloha Steven,

    Ua aʻo aku wau ua hoʻopau paha wau i nā ʻōlelo a Mark ... e like me kaʻu i hana ai. Ua kuhikuhi ʻo Mark i kekahi mau ʻatikala e pili ana i ke kaumaha a ʻaʻole i haʻi ʻia ʻo ia wale nō nā kumu o ke kaumaha - he mau kāne wale nō ia i ʻōlelo ʻia. ʻO ke kumumanaʻo o Social Media a he manawa kūpono ia e kōkua ai i ke kaumaha ʻaʻole ʻo Mark, ʻo ia kahi aʻu e haʻohaʻo ai.

    He moʻolelo weliweli e pili ana i kou kaiāulu a ʻae pū wau me ʻoe - no ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo ka mea āpau e pono ai ke olakino. Manaʻo wau e wehe ʻo Social Media iā mākou e 'pili' i nā kaiāulu ʻaʻole mākou e hōʻike ʻē aʻe.

    Mahalo no ka manaʻo kūikawā!
    Doug

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    ʻO ka pou maikaʻi, Doug! ʻIke wau i ka launa pūnaewele ʻana i kahi ala e hoʻopili ai me nā ʻano a me nā ola o nā poʻe he nui aʻu e manaʻo nei he mau hoaaloha, kekahi o lākou a he mau hoa pili, a pili i nā ola ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole lawa kaʻu mau hola i ka lā e hana pēlā. . Inā ʻike wau i kahi hoaaloha i nele, hiki iaʻu ke kiʻi koke e ʻike i ka mea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hana e hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo. Ua loaʻa pū kekahi mau hoa aloha (ʻo ʻoe pū kekahi!) Ma o ka kamaʻilio uila ʻana i ʻike ʻole ʻia ai wau e ka ʻike, a ʻo ia ka mea i lilo i mau hoaaloha offline.

    PS Ua haʻo wau i kāu mau palapala i kēlā me kēia lā ʻoiai ʻoe e hana nui nei me kāu papahana a me kāu hoʻololi. Nui koʻu hauʻoli i ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mau pou i kēia manawa!

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      Mahalo e Julie! Ke hoʻāʻo nei wau e hoʻi i kahi wikiwiki akā paʻakikī wau. Hana wau i mau hola lōʻihi a ua hoʻohui wau i ka hoʻoikaika kino (e noʻonoʻo i kēlā!) I ka hui. ʻAʻole wau i ʻike i ke kumuhana kūpono akā maikaʻi wau - māluhiluhi a luhi hoʻi.

      E hele au i laila!

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    ʻAe piha wau me ke kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā pūnaewele kaiapili kahi mea lapaʻau maikaʻi e hana ai. Noʻu iho, ua ʻike wau he maikaʻi loa a hoʻokuʻu ʻia naʻu e kākau e pili ana i koʻu mau manaʻo. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻohe mea heluhelu lākou. Aia ka mana i ke kākau maoli ʻana i lalo. Aloha pū wau i nā pūnaewele e like me Facebook a me MySpace. ʻAe lākou i nā poʻe e hoʻohui i nā mea hou aku inā ʻaʻole lākou i kēlā pili. Mahalo no ka kau ʻana i kēia ʻike e pili ana i nā pūnaewele kaiapili. Lana koʻu manaʻo e ʻike ka nui a me ka nui o ka poʻe i ka maikaʻi i loko.

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      He holoholona pili kaiaulu mākou, ʻaʻole ʻo Jason? Inā ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke launa, hilinaʻi wau hiki i kēlā ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia lehulehu a hiki ke hoʻokuʻu i nā pilikia ʻē aʻe.

      E like me ʻoe, ʻike maoli wau i ke kākau ʻana ma ke ʻano he kiwikā hoʻokuʻu hoʻokuʻu maikaʻi loa. Eia kekahi, ke hoʻomaikaʻi mai kekahi iaʻu a i ʻole nā ​​mea e pili ana i nā mea aʻu i kākau ai - hana kupanaha kēlā no ka manaʻo ponoʻī iā ʻoe iho.

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    ʻIke wau i ka ʻeha mai ke kaumaha hiki ke hōʻemi ʻia i ka hopena o ke komo ʻana i nā hana kaiaulu. E nānā i nā loiloi hihia mai nā poʻe e ʻimi i ka Second Life e laʻa me. Hiki iā lākou ke hana i nā avatar e pili ana i nā ʻano kino a lākou e makemake ai a hoʻopili me nā poʻe ma nā pae a lākou i hiki ʻole ai ma mua. Hoʻokahi wale nō laʻana.

    Ua ʻike maka wau i ka pehea o ke kōkua ʻana mai o ka pāpaho. Ke nānā nei wau i kahi kūkākūkā hui MySpace depression e kālailai i ka hilinaʻi ʻana o ka poʻe kaumaha i ke kaumaha, hopohopo, bipolar, OCD, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe i kēia mau kaiaulu no ke kākoʻo ʻOiai ke nānā nei i ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana ua nānā au i ke kūkākūkā ʻana o kekahi kanaka iā ia iho. Ua lele koke ke kaiāulu a kōkua iā ia i waho. Me he mea lā ua hana ke kaiāulu MySpace e like me kona ola ola.

    Manaʻo wau me kahi e hele nei nā pāpili kaiaulu e ʻike mākou i nā lawelawe hou aʻe i hiki ke hoʻolaʻa ʻia no nā kikoʻī kikoʻī. ʻO nā mea maʻi e like me aʻu (kahi mea kūʻai aku ma mua aʻu e hana nei i ka noiʻi no kēlā manawa) ke lawe pū nei i ka poʻe e ʻehaʻeha nei i nā ʻano kaumaha like ʻole i hiki iā lākou ke kaʻana like i ko lākou ʻike. He mea hana kupaianaha ia a hele wale e hōʻike iā ʻoe i ka ikaika o nā pūnaewele kaiaulu i ka mālama ʻana i nā wāwae o kekahi kanaka ma ka honua. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi kahi pūnaewele like e like me PLM e ʻae wale i ka poʻe e ʻeha nei i kahi ʻano e hui pū i ka hui. Hoʻonui kēia i ka pae komo no ka mea ʻike lākou ʻaʻole hoʻokahi lākou.

    Mahalo no kēia kūlana maikaʻi Doug!

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    Manaʻo wau hiki i nā pāpili kaiaulu ke kōkua i ka poʻe e hana me ke kaumaha, no ke aha?

    ʻO koʻu akeakamai no kēlā me kēia o mākou, a pili nā mea āpau ma ka honua. No mākou mai kahi kumu o ka ikehu, a ʻo ke kaumaha kahi hopena o ka manaʻo o ka kaʻawale ʻana mai kēia kumu.

    ʻAe ua maopopo iaʻu he mau makahiki hou kēia. Akā he manaʻo maʻalahi ia, a he mea kūpono iaʻu.

    ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo he lāʻau lapaʻau ka pāpili kaiaulu, akā lawe pū ia i ka poʻe, a ʻo ia ka mea a mākou āpau e makemake ai i ko mākou ʻano nui.

    Hoʻolālā kaʻu kaikamahine kaikamahine i ka hapa nui o kāna manawa pūnaewele ma kahi pūnaewele i kapa ʻia ʻo nexopia. Ua launa ʻo ia i kona mau hoaaloha he nui, ma kahi a ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe o kēia pūnaewele pūnaewele. Kōkua nā pūnaewele pūnaewele iā mākou e hālāwai me nā poʻe me nā hoihoi like, a he mea pono e hoʻopili iā mākou me nā hoa o kēia manawa, a me nā hoaaloha kahiko.

    Ke heluhelu nei au i ka "The Power of Now" na Eckhart Tolle. Hele a kikoʻī kēia puke e pili ana i ke kumu o ke kaumaha, ke hopohopo a me nā mea hou aʻe.

    Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka hopena e "ola i kēia manawa" ma ke ʻano he lāʻau. ʻAe like wau, a recomment hoʻi i kēia puke no nā mea makemake i kahi alakaʻi philisophical i ka hauʻoli.

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